it’s been a long time…

Image2011 was a tough year. life felt scattered and fuzzy and challenging and frustrating. friends faced major illnesses, financial upheaval, the loss of loved ones. we all had to let go of something – homes, jobs, a way of life. we scaled back and huddled together, wondering when the storm would pass. but through all the struggle, came a clarity – a realization of what truly matters – we gave an ear to listen, a shoulder to lean on, a hand to hold…stripped of all that we thought we knew, we were left with ourselves and each other. conversations became more meaningful, connections more genuine.

the approach of the end of the year usually brings loads of self-reflection. but this year, i feel i’ve been doing it every day. instead of writing here, i’ve been buried in my journal, trying to figure out what happened…but our financial implosion was caused by people i’ll never know and by a sense of greed and a disregard for others that i cannot comprehend. so all i can focus on is what i do know…i have an incredible circle of friends, an amazing and talented boyfriend and 2 dogs that bring me joy each and every day, i have my health, a creative mind and i work for a company i love. i feel things are coming back into focus. i feel a shift in the air and that 2012 won’t be as brutal as 2011 was. we’ve all become untethered from possessions and ways of thinking that were holding us back. and in that liberation, we must find a way to move forward. together.

i feel my life is more authentic now and to 2012, i say, “bring it!” … i’m ready.

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anonymous letter from a shelter manager…

a friend posted this on faceboook. it is heartbreaking and as many people as possible need to read it:

A Letter from a Shelter Manager – anonymous in North Carolina

I think our society needs a huge “Wake-up” call. As a shelter manager, I am going to share a little insight with you all…a view from the inside if you will.

First off, all of you breeders/sellers should be made to work in the “back” of an animal shelter for just one day. Maybe if you saw the life drain from a few sad, lost, confused eyes, you would change your mind about breeding and selling to people you don’t even know.

That puppy you just sold will most likely end up in my shelter when it’s not a cute little puppy anymore. So how would you feel if you knew that there’s about a 90% chance that dog will never walk out of the shelter it is going to be dumped at? Purebred or not! About 50% of all of the dogs that are “owner surrenders” or “strays”, that come into my shelter are purebred dogs.

The most common excuses I hear are; “We are moving and we can’t take our dog (or cat).” Really? Where are you moving too that doesn’t allow pets? Or they say “The dog got bigger than we thought it would”. How big did you think a German Shepherd would get? “We don’t have time for her”. Really? I work a 10-12 hour day and still have time for my 6 dogs! “She’s tearing up our yard”. How about making her a part of your family? They always tell me “We just don’t want to have to stress about finding a place for her we know she’ll get adopted, she’s a good dog”.

Odds are your pet won’t get adopted & how stressful do you think being in a shelter is? Well, let me tell you, your pet has 72 hours to find a new family from the moment you drop it off. Sometimes a little longer if the shelter isn’t full and your dog manages to stay completely healthy. If it sniffles, it dies. Your pet will be confined to a small run/kennel in a room with about 25 other barking or crying animals. It will have to relieve itself where it eats and sleeps. It will be depressed and it will cry constantly for the family that abandoned it. If your pet is lucky, I will have enough volunteers in that day to take him/her for a walk. If I don’t, your pet won’t get any attention besides having a bowl of food slid under the kennel door and the waste sprayed out of its pen with a high-powered hose. If your dog is big, black or any of the “Bully” breeds (pit bull, rottie, mastiff, etc) it was pretty much dead when you walked it through the front door.

Those dogs just don’t get adopted. It doesn’t matter how ‘sweet’ or ‘well behaved’ they are.

If your dog doesn’t get adopted within its 72 hours and the shelter is full, it will be destroyed. If the shelter isn’t full and your dog is good enough, and of a desirable enough breed it may get a stay of execution, but not for long . Most dogs get very kennel protective after about a week and are destroyed for showing aggression. Even the sweetest dogs will turn in this environment. If your pet makes it over all of those hurdles chances are it will get kennel cough or an upper respiratory infection and will be destroyed because shelters just don’t have the funds to pay for even a $100 treatment.

Here’s a little euthanasia 101 for those of you that have never witnessed a perfectly healthy, scared animal being “put-down”.

First, your pet will be taken from its kennel on a leash. They always look like they think they are going for a walk happy, wagging their tails. Until they get to “The Room”, every one of them freaks out and puts on the brakes when we get to the door. It must smell like death or they can feel the sad souls that are left in there, it’s strange, but it happens with every one of them. Your dog or cat will be restrained, held down by 1 or 2 vet techs depending on the size and how freaked out they are. Then a euthanasia tech or a vet will start the process. They will find a vein in the front leg and inject a lethal dose of the “pink stuff”. Hopefully your pet doesn’t panic from being restrained and jerk. I’ve seen the needles tear out of a leg and been covered with the resulting blood and been deafened by the yelps and screams. They all don’t just “go to sleep”, sometimes they spasm for a while, gasp for air and defecate on themselves.

When it all ends, your pets corpse will be stacked like firewood in a large freezer in the back with all of the other animals that were killed waiting to be picked up like garbage. What happens next? Cremated? Taken to the dump? Rendered into pet food? You’ll never know and it probably won’t even cross your mind. It was just an animal and you can always buy another one, right?

I hope that those of you that have read this are bawling your eyes out and can’t get the pictures out of your head I deal with everyday on the way home from work.

I hate my job, I hate that it exists & I hate that it will always be there unless you people make some changes and realize that the lives you are affecting go much farther than the pets you dump at a shelter.

Between 9 and 11 MILLION animals die every year in shelters and only you can stop it. I do my best to save every life I can but rescues are always full, and there are more animals coming in everyday than there are homes.

My point to all of this DON’T BREED OR BUY WHILE SHELTER PETS DIE!

Hate me if you want to. The truth hurts and reality is what it is. I just hope I maybe changed one persons mind about breeding their dog, taking their loving pet to a shelter, or buying a dog. I hope that someone will walk into my shelter and say “I saw this and it made me want to adopt”. THAT WOULD MAKE IT WORTH IT.

please share on all your social media channels.

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a personal plea from dion neutra to save the kronish house…


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things are not looking good for the kronish house, the largest neutra in beverly hills. not even waiting until the agreed upon extension date next month, the owners have taken the house off the market and have started asbestos abatement (do they even have a permit?). there’s something fishy about this move, it reeks of backdoor deals – are they doing this so that the new owners won’t have blood on their hands? this way, the demolition has already been done and the new owners will be free to build the mc mansion of their dreams on 2 acres of prime beverly hills land. because that’s what beverly hills needs…

time is really ticking on this one. dion neutra is asking EVERYONE to attend the beverly hills city council meeting tomorrow evening (public comments will be heard around 7:15pm, so get there by 7pm). and please, please sign and share this letter addressed to the mayor and city council. it will only take a moment, and it could make all the difference in the world.

we need to unite as an international voice – too often, money trumps historic preservation. absolute worst case scenario, we lose the kronish (and i don’t type that lightly), but we pave the way for historic/cultural preservation to be the norm in beverly hills and not the demolition of irreplaceable treasures of architectural art.

p.s. if you were planning on attending the event on the 24th, it has been CANCELED. that’s why this latest push is so important. it is critical that we spread the word and do all we can in the time remaining.

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9/11/2011…

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it’s so hard to believe it was 10 years ago.  i was walking my dog in brentwood, another beautiful morning on the westside, a day like any other. a neighbor asked if i had seen the news. there was a horrible accident in new york. i took hershey home and turned on the tv. i was trying to get my head around what i was seeing when the second plane hit. in that moment, we all knew. this was something bigger, something darker. in that moment, there was an international gasp. in that moment, everything changed.

it was one of those seminal moments in human history. when all we knew or thought we knew was lost forever. when the best and the worst of people came to light. when the courage and heroism of first responders and of ordinary citizens moved you to tears. when the loss of life and the loss of hope was so overwhelming, you didn’t know what to do. when the devastation wrought by a small group of young men in 4 planes was too much to bear. what was happening? were we really under attack? time stood still, as the images replayed over and over.

and then, when you thought it couldn’t get any worse, the towers fell. even now, a decade later, remembering that moment, it is hard to breathe. the massive cloud. the ashen people. the darkness. i thought about all those souls. the firemen, climbing up, up, up as everyone else descended. it was all too much. and it still is.

in the following days and weeks, it felt like america was at a crossroads. the world was united with us. which path would we take? the newly created homeland security and their color coded chart did little to alleviate our fears. it was the people who came together – giving what they could. consoling each other. posting photos of their missing loved ones. trying, against all odds, to not give up hope.

last night, for the first time since 2001, i watched documentaries. the images still inconceivable.  all those moments of horror and disbelief and rage and sadness. of heroism and unity and collective grief. and now, 10 years later, so much has been lost. shock and awe. so many lives in iraq and afghanistan. and at some level, the very core of our civil liberties.

10 years.  maybe it’s too soon to know how that day really changed us. all we can do is remember that feeling of wanting to do more. to be more. to unite as citizens of the world. to nurture that sense of community we all felt in those days following september 11th. life has grown more difficult, so many of us struggling financially, but the core of us, the soul of us, is still there, flickering deep down as it was on that fateful day. the best remembrance of all that was lost may be to renew our compassion and try to live our lives as we did a decade ago. to remind ourselves that the world is much smaller and more connected than we thought on september 10, 2001.

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saving the kronish house…

The Kronish House in Beverly Hills, California. From Mark Angeles via Unlimited Style and ArchDaily

it’s been a long time since i’ve been to the ol’ blog. work has been pretty hectic and the heat…oh, the heat…triple digits…muggy…don’t get me started!

i saw this on facebook and had to share with all of you who care about architecture and mid century modern design. as some of you may know, many historic homes have already been bulldozed in beverly hills:  john lautner, paul williams, frank lloyd wright…all of ‘em, gone.

richard neutra‘s kronish house was slated for demolition, until passionate preservationists rallied to get an extension. the shitty thing is “the soda partners” got the house out of foreclosure for $5.8 million and then put it on the market for $13,995,000 (that’s quite the flip…ugh.). hilton/hyland is listing it as a “sunset contemporary” with no reference to richard neutra (how strange).

the kronish house is a largest neutra (7000 sq ft) in so. cal. and the last one standing in beverly hills (the other two have already fallen victim to the wrecking ball or horrible renovations). from the huffington post:

Richard Neutra once spoke about his seven-thousand square foot collaboration with Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Kronish. He wrote, “Every major project like this takes a good deal of ‘starch’ out of me, my life-strength, but there is always deep satisfaction.”

dion neutra has posted a petition to save the kronish called “networking for neutra” (and is asking us all to spread the word by asking 5 friends to do the same. if i contact 5 people and those people contact 5 people, we would reach 100 million people in a week! if we each donated $1, $5, $10…well, you can do the math!):

you can sign the petition here and please give as much as you can … the goal is to save the house and turn it into a research library of sorts that would be open to the public by appointment.

it’s rare to have this much time to try and save an icon…won’t you do what you can to spread the word?

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meatless monday recipe: avocado wasabi salad…

image from vegan yum yum

well, this one will have to be for little old me alone…the irishman doesn’t do avocados or wasabi…but this recipe looked too delicious to pass up! i don’t have much to say, it’s a salad. a lovely salad. a lovely salad with unique flavors. and i’m making it tonight for dinner.

i guess my lack of words could be due to the fact that this week, i conquered my fears and went for a spontaneous paraglide…say what? you heard me! little miss vertigo was flying high in the sky on tuesday. feet dangling over mountains. soaring up, up, up in the sky!

i had booked a surprise paraglide for the irishman’s birthday in june. we drove up to malibu, under the pretense of an awesome hike and a delicious mountaintop lunch (courtesy of the specialty department at whole foods). after about 45 minutes of wandering around in the blazing hot sun (i couldn’t find the rendezvous), we finally saw the guys – cliff ryder (yes, that’s his name) and his friend, steven. i went up asking about some super secret hiking trail. they said, they didn’t know the trail, but they did know it was tim’s birthday and they were his birthday present! it took him a moment to figure out what was going on. long story too long, we didn’t end up doing it that day, just hung out on the mountain with two amazing life-loving guys, eating cheese and olives and bread and having a splendid time.

fast forward a month later. it’s time for tim’s paraglide. we get out to malibu and they literally jump off the cliff. they fly low, over mountain ridges and soar up over a mountain and descend down to the sand. they land like little ballerinas in between sunbathers and beach goers. it is perfect. cliff takes us out for celebratory cocktails at duke’s and we try to figure out what to do next. cliff and tim are giddy from their ride. i’m a bit jealous, i must admit – but know that i cannot jump off like they did. cliff offers up kayaking and swimming (it’s an especially beautiful day in malibu). OR we could get in the car and drive to san bernardino/lake arrowhead and i could paraglide TODAY! gulp.

i decide to go for it! we drive for hours and end up at a beautiful berm. a rolling hill and perfect wind conditions. we run (i, rather awkwardly) and then, we are flying! gently, silently (minus my squeals), magically. it was amazing and life-changing.

we’re still waiting for videos from cliff, but if you live in l.a. and want to do something like this, we highly recommend cliff ryder! i’ll post the videos as soon as we get ‘em…

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meatless monday recipe: quinoa taco salad…

image from gluten-free goddess

light. bright. perfect for summer and gluten-free? there’s so much to love about this quinoa taco salad!

i may have to up the spice level, but other than that, this is a lovely salad that’s sure to please! and would be an awesome addition to your july 4th festivities…

not much time for blogging today, i’m on the 3rd day running of events for the store!

so, cnjoy!

(wow, almost every sentence ended with an exclamation mark…yikes!)

 

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meatless monday recipe: seitan and brocollini with clementine teriyaki…

image from vegan yum yum

happy meatless monday!

i’m posting this recipe for my recently converted vegan and veggie friends, marie & jenny. sometimes making the change to a meatless life is hard, and once you’ve run the gamut of salads, stir fries and spring pastas or rice and beans variations, sometimes you just want what you used to have. sometimes that craving for teriyaki is just too powerful to ignore!

so i’m hoping vegan yum yum’s recipe for teriyaki seitan will scratch that itch that they both might be feeling right about now. lauren’s recipe is one of those that are open to loads of interpretations – for example,  i love the idea of lightening and brightening the sauce with clementines, but i prefer my teriyaki sauce to have garlic and ginger and sesame oil and chili flakes. but with this base recipe, you can customize to your (healthy) heart’s content!

enjoy, ladies!

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summer savings on supermarket!

try to say that 3 times fast!

head on over to our supermarket store and enjoy free shipping on all products!

spread the word!

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food for thought: forks over knives…

so many of the chronic illnesses we suffer from can be alleviated with food. that’s right, food. not pills or magic potions, but healthy and vibrant plant-based foods. you all know that i don’t eat meat and yet still i suffer from high cholesterol…i think i told you that for me, my arch nemesis is cheese…and eggs. i’ve really reduced my egg intake, but the cheese? ah, the cheese…it’s a tough one.

we all can look around and see that we are no longer are a healthy nation. when i was growing up, there was no such thing as childhood diabetes or childhood obesity. and now those two words are uttered so often it’s heartbreaking. literally.

but what if you knew, truly knew that diabetes, obesity,  heart disease and high cholesterol could be prevented simply by taking a good long look at your plate? wouldn’t you want to make this simple change? i don’t want to get all preachy, but i’ve seen the benefits first hand. if you’re like me with cheese and you can’t imagine your life without your burger or your bacon, that’s fine…we just need to make those foods we love smaller and less frequent on our plates. now when i have cheese, it’s a really special cheese. and i savor it.

i really urge you to see forks over knives for yourself. it’s not often a film can change your life, but this one just might!

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